Dan Savage
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What He Says
On Monogamy: "I believe men can be monogamous. But I believe that it's a difficult struggle. You know, when you're in love with someone and you make a monogamous commitment, it's not that you don't want to sleep with other people; it's that you refrain from sleeping with other people. The culture says if there is love there is no desire for others and that makes people essentially at war with their own instincts and leads to lies and deceit because you're lying and deceiving yourself." (From the Seattle newspaper, The Stranger)