Sexes: Finding Trouble in Paradise

Do women really prefer cuddling over "the act"?

Women have had access to the Pill for nearly 30 years, and many now unabashedly woo reluctant dates with phone calls and American Express gold cards. But they are still not sure what to make of sex. On the one hand, they want the freedom to express their sexual needs; on the other hand, they resent the idea that they should "express themselves" after every dutch treat at the Steak 'n' Ale. Calls for the Sensitive Man alternate with pleas for a few good neo-Neanderthals.

Now Ann Landers, 66, guru to the lovelorn, has concluded that despite all the talk of...

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