Tips for the Pet Trap

Prepare for a shift of responsibility before your child leaves home
Most animals are adaptable and will do well with an attentive new caretaker. But not always. For dogs especially, parents should take over some walking or feeding chores, suggests Pamela Reid, director of the ASPCA's animal behavior center. "If the dog is very bonded to the adult child and not affectionate with others, this may be a red flag to the parent to take the dog to obedience classes to help transfer control and possibly affection." With older animals, you may need to begin the transition earlier.

Consult an animal behaviorist about the needs of geriatric pets
Animal behaviorists are now a certified veterinary specialty. Behaviorists can offer special insight into how to deal with issues like an old cat who does not use her litter box. If she cannot climb into the box because she's arthritic, a ramp may be the solution. Veterinary acupuncturists can also help. If a dog is losing vision and hearing, he may need more social interaction and a family member to console him, says John C. Wright, author of the pet guide, Ain't Misbehavin' .

Take Advantage of Pet Support Systems
If your work or travel schedules make full-time pet care difficult, look for a doggy day care facility in your area. These for-profit centers, with specially trained staff, can provide care and social interaction while you work, either every day or several days a week. Good-quality kennels will also take your pet full-time, for weeks, if necessary. For part-time help, you can also hire professional pet sitters or even responsible neighborhood kids.

Negotiate transferring ownership to your adult child
If caring for the pet provides a serious hardship, begin negotiating with your children before they move off-campus. Suggest they look for an apartment that allows pets. Many apartment complexes do, and others will permit animals if the renter pays a non-refundable pet deposit that ranges from about $50 to $150.