Wedding Wisdom

Meet the marriage mentors: why more couples are seeking their advice

Mess with your wife's favorite radio stations, and you could open yourself up for a nice long talk about the lost art of consideration. Just ask newlywed Kaet Ruffner, 26, whose husband Andy borrowed her car twice and reprogrammed her preset radio stations. "I got fired up because I felt like he wasn't respecting my property," says Kaet, who lives with her husband in Fairfax, Va. "Then I knew I had to communicate with him, not react. I told him I didn't mess with his stations, so please don't mess with mine. He said he was sorry and hasn't borrowed my...

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